Special Guest Post: Responsibility for a Child

From Proverbs 22:6:  “Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it.”

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The headlines read of child pornography, drugs, alcohol, depression, teen-age suicide, murder, abuse and much, much more! Sometimes, we might feel that if we don’t read the newspapers or listen to news reports, we can forget those things are there.  We would like them to go away.  We would like to forget they exist. Unfortunately, we know they won’t go away, and our hearts are sickened by that painful truth. How are these horrible realities affecting the lives of our precious children?  They are not only in the high schools. You can find them in elementary schools, day care facilities, and on street corners everywhere.  It breaks my heart to read of the young victims held in the clutches of such evils. More than that, it makes me angry!

The Word of God tells us to be angry and sin not! We should be angry at the evils around our children.  These children are a gift from God, but the gift was not free. It came with a price tag of awesome responsibility.  How foolish is the parent who takes that responsibility lightly. We are in a battle against Satan.  If God is to control our children’s lives when they become adults, we must train them as children.  We cannot handle their lives as though they are nothing but toys or play things, and expect God to let us off without answering for it.  Our children must be armed for battle by knowing God and His Word. Jesus defeated Satan in the wilderness by using Scripture, and we have the power to do the same!  How can we allow our children to go out into this worldly battle unarmed?  We must teach them what is right, and show them how to have the strength to stand up for it.

A dear friend of mine has shared something very special with me.  She also wonders about the effects of the evils of this world on her children.  She has always prayed for their lives each day.  Since it has become a burden in her heart, she has started praying for their children’s safe future before she goes to bed at night.  She goes into their room after they’re asleep, and places her hand on them as she prays.  As you touch the child you brought into this world, how can you not feel the great responsibility to pray for their health, their school years, and their adult lives?  I challenge you to do this for your children!

It takes an awesome commitment to be a parent; to pray for them at night, to teach them each day, and to live what you teach.  Without that commitment, will your child become one of the statistics? 

Prayer

Oh Father, help me feel the burden of responsibility for my children’s lives.  Help me to be faithful to pray and teach each one in the way they should go.  Show me today where I’ve failed as a parent in the past. Forgive me when I take this position lightly. Help me to live a life that is consistent with what I teach.  Father, use my children for Your glory, that Jesus may be seen in them.  Amen.

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This devotion is written by my wife, Colleen.  It is taken from the contents of her book, BITS ‘N’ PIECES OF MY HEART.  Inspired by her own Christian faith and a mother’s love for her daughters, Colleen’s writings feature short stories, devotions, and poetry.  These are intended for reading by adults and teens.  The final two sections of the book share her inventory of activities and songs to enjoy with young children.  Her book is available online at your favorite outlet.

St. Thomas Aquinas Quote

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A man’s heart is right when he wills what God wills.

From Daniel 2:22:  “He reveals deep and hidden things; He knows what is in the darkness, and light dwells with Him.”

St. Thomas Aquinas was an Italian priest and theologian during the 13th century.  During his time, he became one of the foremost thinkers and philosophers.

Truth’s Impact (Elfchen Series #282)

Sustaining

Readiness

Destiny awakened

Walking with Jesus

Overcoming trials with joy

Perseverance

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Strengthening

Submission

Faith tested

Believing in Jesus

Accepting His eternal love

Resilience

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Sharpening

Prayer

Hope embraced

Kneeling before Jesus

Transforming away from doubt

Endurance

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This series of poems (written in the German-inspired style of Elfchen or Elevenie) shares a total of eleven words in each poem, with a sequence by line of one, two, three, four, and one words.

Oswald Chambers Quote

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Self-realization leads to the enthronement of work; whereas the saint enthrones Jesus Christ in his work.

From Philippians 3:10:  “I want to know Christ and the power of His resurrection and the sharing of His sufferings by becoming like Him in His death.”

Oswald Chambers (1874-1917) was a Scottish evangelist and Christian teacher.  Following his death from an illness while in Egypt during World War I, his wife took on the task of transcribing the detailed notes she had written from his lectures and sermons.  Gertrude Hobbs Chambers’ efforts resulted in the publication in 1924 of MY UTMOST FOR HIS HIGHEST.  I frequently read from this devotional, and it has greatly deepened my faith and understanding of God’s Word.

Covenant’s Fresh Bud

From Psalm 103:2-4:  “Bless the Lord, O my soul, and do not forget all His benefits—who forgives all your iniquity, who heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the Pit, who crowns you with steadfast love and mercy.”

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Praising Father’s goodness

Knowing His love never ends

Forgiving sin’s transgressions

Humbling pride, truth never bends

 

Redeeming life from darkness

Trusting Father’s light of grace

Renewing hope from His peace

Allowing love to embrace

 

Teaching from Father’s Word

Abounding in steadfast love

Erasing darkest shadows

Descending Son from above

 

Dispersing mercy’s breath

Feeling Father’s tender hand

Breaking apart chains of sin

Sowing love across this land

 

Following Father’s light

Witnessing Calvary’s blood

Paying man’s debts with Son’s love

Living covenant’s fresh bud

 

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From Psalm 103:13-14:  “As a father has compassion for his children, so the Lord has compassion for those who fear Him.  For He knows how we were made; He remembers that we are dust.”

Tim Keller Quote

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If God is not at the center of your life, something else is.

From Proverbs 3:5-6:  “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not rely on your own insight.  In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths.”

Tim Keller (1950-2023) was an American pastor and Christian theologian.

Monday Memories: Just in Case

From James 4:6:  “But He gives all the more grace; therefore it says, ‘God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.'”

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Our Creator’s divine plan

Offers fullest, living grace

Giving patience, just in case

When running life’s anxious race

 

Our Lord shares forgiveness

Relationships need healing

Forgiving sin, just in case

When each day seems freewheeling

 

Heaven’s Father, sharing peace

Imperfect lives needing change

Trimming each branch, just in case

When roaming lost on God’s range

 

God shares His timely wisdom

From Heaven, He sees us fall

Touching our hand, just in case

When we need His hope-filled call

 

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From John 15:1-2:  “I am the true vine, and my Father is the vinegrower.  He removes every branch in me that bears no fruit.  Every branch that bears fruit He prunes to make it bear more fruit.”

Originally published January, 2021.

Henry Blackaby Quote

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When you offer yourself to God as His servant, He first expects to shape you into the instrument of His choosing.  He will always work in you before He works through you.

From Philippians 1:6:  “I am confident of this, that the one who began a good work in you will continue to complete it until the day of Jesus Christ.”

Henry Blackaby (1935-2024) was a Canadian pastor and Christian author.

Trusted Patience

From the words of American pastor and Christian author, Charles Swindoll:  “When the sovereign God brings us to nothing, it is to reroute our lives.”

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Surrounded by darkness

Human perspective fades

Thinking offers no choices

Feeling betrayed

 

Trusted patience in God

His fields of green shall sprout

Taking delight in His peace

Erasing doubt

 

Committed to God’s way

Today’s hope starts anew

Knowing mercy share His love

Transforming view

 

Witnessed truth in God’s Word

Calvary’s light unfolds

Rewiring faith’s new outlook

Praying tenfold

 

Rescued by Savior’s grace

Redemption now deploys

Forgiving, eternal love

Responding joy

 

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From Psalm 37:23-24:  “Our steps are made firm by the Lord when He delights in our way; though we stumble, we shall not fall headlong, for the Lord holds us by the hand.”

Charles Stanley Quote

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We must remember that the shortest distance between our problems and their solutions is the distance between our knees and the floor.

From Isaiah 40:30-31:  “Even youths will faint and be weary, and the young will fall exhausted, but those who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.”

Charles Stanley (1932-2023) was an American pastor and Christian writer.  He was dedicated to leading a teaching ministry.