Special Guest Post: Responsibility for a Child

From Proverbs 22:6:  “Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it.”

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The headlines read of child pornography, drugs, alcohol, depression, teen-age suicide, murder, abuse and much, much more! Sometimes, we might feel that if we don’t read the newspapers or listen to news reports, we can forget those things are there.  We would like them to go away.  We would like to forget they exist. Unfortunately, we know they won’t go away, and our hearts are sickened by that painful truth. How are these horrible realities affecting the lives of our precious children?  They are not only in the high schools. You can find them in elementary schools, day care facilities, and on street corners everywhere.  It breaks my heart to read of the young victims held in the clutches of such evils. More than that, it makes me angry!

The Word of God tells us to be angry and sin not! We should be angry at the evils around our children.  These children are a gift from God, but the gift was not free. It came with a price tag of awesome responsibility.  How foolish is the parent who takes that responsibility lightly. We are in a battle against Satan.  If God is to control our children’s lives when they become adults, we must train them as children.  We cannot handle their lives as though they are nothing but toys or play things, and expect God to let us off without answering for it.  Our children must be armed for battle by knowing God and His Word. Jesus defeated Satan in the wilderness by using Scripture, and we have the power to do the same!  How can we allow our children to go out into this worldly battle unarmed?  We must teach them what is right, and show them how to have the strength to stand up for it.

A dear friend of mine has shared something very special with me.  She also wonders about the effects of the evils of this world on her children.  She has always prayed for their lives each day.  Since it has become a burden in her heart, she has started praying for their children’s safe future before she goes to bed at night.  She goes into their room after they’re asleep, and places her hand on them as she prays.  As you touch the child you brought into this world, how can you not feel the great responsibility to pray for their health, their school years, and their adult lives?  I challenge you to do this for your children!

It takes an awesome commitment to be a parent; to pray for them at night, to teach them each day, and to live what you teach.  Without that commitment, will your child become one of the statistics? 

Prayer

Oh Father, help me feel the burden of responsibility for my children’s lives.  Help me to be faithful to pray and teach each one in the way they should go.  Show me today where I’ve failed as a parent in the past. Forgive me when I take this position lightly. Help me to live a life that is consistent with what I teach.  Father, use my children for Your glory, that Jesus may be seen in them.  Amen.

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This devotion is written by my wife, Colleen.  It is taken from the contents of her book, BITS ‘N’ PIECES OF MY HEART.  Inspired by her own Christian faith and a mother’s love for her daughters, Colleen’s writings feature short stories, devotions, and poetry.  These are intended for reading by adults and teens.  The final two sections of the book share her inventory of activities and songs to enjoy with young children.  Her book is available online at your favorite outlet.

Truth’s Impact (Elfchen Series #282)

Sustaining

Readiness

Destiny awakened

Walking with Jesus

Overcoming trials with joy

Perseverance

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Strengthening

Submission

Faith tested

Believing in Jesus

Accepting His eternal love

Resilience

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Sharpening

Prayer

Hope embraced

Kneeling before Jesus

Transforming away from doubt

Endurance

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This series of poems (written in the German-inspired style of Elfchen or Elevenie) shares a total of eleven words in each poem, with a sequence by line of one, two, three, four, and one words.

Charles Stanley Quote

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We must remember that the shortest distance between our problems and their solutions is the distance between our knees and the floor.

From Isaiah 40:30-31:  “Even youths will faint and be weary, and the young will fall exhausted, but those who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.”

Charles Stanley (1932-2023) was an American pastor and Christian writer.  He was dedicated to leading a teaching ministry.

Charles Swindoll Quote

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In the midst of the struggles and the storms and the sufferings of life, we can advance our thoughts beyond today and see relief.  Because, in the end, God does indeed win.

From Romans 12:12:  “Rejoice in hope; be patient in affliction; persevere in prayer.”

Charles Swindoll (born 1934) is an American pastor and Christian author.

Shared Moments with Peace (Elfchen Series #279)

Meditation

Praying

To Father

Confidence within Him

Trusting in His control

Daily

Reflections

Seeking

Tomorrow’s light

Heart embraces prayer

With eagerness to ask

Truth

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Surrender

Waking

With Jesus

Morning’s prayer-filled mindset

Leaving worries at cross

Peace

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S. D. Gordon Quote

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Prayer wonderfully clears the vision; steadies the nerves, defines duty; stiffens the purpose; sweetens and strengthens the spirit.

From Psalm 91:14-16:  “Those who love Me, I will deliver; I will protect those who know My name.  When they call to Me, I will answer them; I will be with them in trouble; I will rescue them and honor them.  With long life I will satisfy them and show them My salvation.”

Samuel Dickey (S. D.) Gordon (1859-1936) was an American Christian author and evangelist.

Following Jesus

From Psalm 34:4-5:  “I sought the Lord, and he answered me and delivered me from all my fears.  Look to him, and be radiant, so your faces shall never be ashamed.”

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Reading Father’s Word

Answers come to thee

Praising from heart’s depths

Darkness at last flees

 

Filling hope’s goodness

Father shares His grace

Nourishing with love

Wisdom to embrace

 

Walking with Father

His righteousness speaks

Directing each step

Enemy now meek

 

Praying for guidance

Father bends earth’s light

Sending Christ to lead

Mercy taking flight

 

Following Jesus

Faith’s journey brightens

Choosing Him each day

His peace enlightens

 

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From John 5:20-21:  “The Father loves the Son and shows Him all that He Himself is doing, and He will show Him greater works than these, so that you will be astonished.  Indeed, just as the Father raises the dead and gives them life, so also the Son gives life to whomever He wishes.”

John Henry Newman Quote

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Prayer is to the spiritual life what the beating of the pulse and the drawing of the breath are to the life of the body.

From James 5:16:  “Therefore confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, so that you may be healed.  The prayer of the righteous is powerful and effective.”

John Henry Newman (1801-1890) was an English theologian, philosopher, and writer.

Rekindled Faith (Elfchen Series #277)

Deepened 

Clutching

Tomorrow’s peace

Kneeling at Calvary

Praying with renewed hope

Truth

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Intensified

Running

Toward Jesus

Accepting love’s grace

Paying His forgiveness forward

Unhindered

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Focused

Praising

Father’s interactions

Turning volume up

Sharing His trusted voice

Discipleship

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Coming Together

From the words of American pastor and Christian author, Charles Swindoll:  “Thanksgiving is a time of quiet reflection . . . an annual reminder that God has, again, been ever so faithful.  The solid and simple things of life are brought into clear focus.”

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National tradition

Year’s intentional pause

Coming together as one

With purposeful cause

 

Nation’s heart now gathers

Thanksgiving welcomes all

Putting aside differences

Mercy’s blessed call

 

Family’s homeward steps

Cherished goodness brightens

Strengthening tomorrow’s bonds

Grace shall enlighten

 

Love fills another home

Peace refreshes outlook

Praying with one single voice

Heaven’s warm chinook

 

Harmony writes new psalm

Tranquility’s fellowship

Sharing gratitude today

Praise from every lip

 

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From Revelation 7:12:  “Blessing and glory and wisdom and thanksgiving and honor and power and might be to our God forever and ever!   Amen.”