Special Guest Post: Responsibility for a Child

From Proverbs 22:6:  “Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it.”

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The headlines read of child pornography, drugs, alcohol, depression, teen-age suicide, murder, abuse and much, much more! Sometimes, we might feel that if we don’t read the newspapers or listen to news reports, we can forget those things are there.  We would like them to go away.  We would like to forget they exist. Unfortunately, we know they won’t go away, and our hearts are sickened by that painful truth. How are these horrible realities affecting the lives of our precious children?  They are not only in the high schools. You can find them in elementary schools, day care facilities, and on street corners everywhere.  It breaks my heart to read of the young victims held in the clutches of such evils. More than that, it makes me angry!

The Word of God tells us to be angry and sin not! We should be angry at the evils around our children.  These children are a gift from God, but the gift was not free. It came with a price tag of awesome responsibility.  How foolish is the parent who takes that responsibility lightly. We are in a battle against Satan.  If God is to control our children’s lives when they become adults, we must train them as children.  We cannot handle their lives as though they are nothing but toys or play things, and expect God to let us off without answering for it.  Our children must be armed for battle by knowing God and His Word. Jesus defeated Satan in the wilderness by using Scripture, and we have the power to do the same!  How can we allow our children to go out into this worldly battle unarmed?  We must teach them what is right, and show them how to have the strength to stand up for it.

A dear friend of mine has shared something very special with me.  She also wonders about the effects of the evils of this world on her children.  She has always prayed for their lives each day.  Since it has become a burden in her heart, she has started praying for their children’s safe future before she goes to bed at night.  She goes into their room after they’re asleep, and places her hand on them as she prays.  As you touch the child you brought into this world, how can you not feel the great responsibility to pray for their health, their school years, and their adult lives?  I challenge you to do this for your children!

It takes an awesome commitment to be a parent; to pray for them at night, to teach them each day, and to live what you teach.  Without that commitment, will your child become one of the statistics? 

Prayer

Oh Father, help me feel the burden of responsibility for my children’s lives.  Help me to be faithful to pray and teach each one in the way they should go.  Show me today where I’ve failed as a parent in the past. Forgive me when I take this position lightly. Help me to live a life that is consistent with what I teach.  Father, use my children for Your glory, that Jesus may be seen in them.  Amen.

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This devotion is written by my wife, Colleen.  It is taken from the contents of her book, BITS ‘N’ PIECES OF MY HEART.  Inspired by her own Christian faith and a mother’s love for her daughters, Colleen’s writings feature short stories, devotions, and poetry.  These are intended for reading by adults and teens.  The final two sections of the book share her inventory of activities and songs to enjoy with young children.  Her book is available online at your favorite outlet.

Oswald Chambers Quote

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Self-realization leads to the enthronement of work; whereas the saint enthrones Jesus Christ in his work.

From Philippians 3:10:  “I want to know Christ and the power of His resurrection and the sharing of His sufferings by becoming like Him in His death.”

Oswald Chambers (1874-1917) was a Scottish evangelist and Christian teacher.  Following his death from an illness while in Egypt during World War I, his wife took on the task of transcribing the detailed notes she had written from his lectures and sermons.  Gertrude Hobbs Chambers’ efforts resulted in the publication in 1924 of MY UTMOST FOR HIS HIGHEST.  I frequently read from this devotional, and it has greatly deepened my faith and understanding of God’s Word.

Covenant’s Fresh Bud

From Psalm 103:2-4:  “Bless the Lord, O my soul, and do not forget all His benefits—who forgives all your iniquity, who heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the Pit, who crowns you with steadfast love and mercy.”

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Praising Father’s goodness

Knowing His love never ends

Forgiving sin’s transgressions

Humbling pride, truth never bends

 

Redeeming life from darkness

Trusting Father’s light of grace

Renewing hope from His peace

Allowing love to embrace

 

Teaching from Father’s Word

Abounding in steadfast love

Erasing darkest shadows

Descending Son from above

 

Dispersing mercy’s breath

Feeling Father’s tender hand

Breaking apart chains of sin

Sowing love across this land

 

Following Father’s light

Witnessing Calvary’s blood

Paying man’s debts with Son’s love

Living covenant’s fresh bud

 

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From Psalm 103:13-14:  “As a father has compassion for his children, so the Lord has compassion for those who fear Him.  For He knows how we were made; He remembers that we are dust.”

Tim Keller Quote

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If God is not at the center of your life, something else is.

From Proverbs 3:5-6:  “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not rely on your own insight.  In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths.”

Tim Keller (1950-2023) was an American pastor and Christian theologian.

Joy’s Destination: A Christmas Story

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Young Lydia awakens on this December’s early morning of peace.  Her imagination embraces new hope to be found in the season.

She understands that Christmas means much more than a decorated tree, wrapped presents, and fresh baked cookies.  As her intuitive eyes peer outside of her bedroom window, the dawn sky offers a view of a brilliant star. 

Inside her quiet thoughts, she whispers, “I need to see more.”

Throwing a long winter coat over her pajamas and remembering to wear her snow boots (just as her Mom always insists), Lydia ventures outside.  Standing on the front porch, she feels surrounded by the tranquility of the winter scene.

The snow-covered yard appears perfectly groomed, and the nearby pine trees are all powdered in white.  To her wandering eyes, the heavens’ star appears even closer.  She feels a tug at her coat to step down from the porch.

Her steps quicken as she edges into the nearby woods.  The cold air actually brings warmth to her heart.  Suddenly, she stops with eager eyes looking forward. 

Again Lydia’s imagination begins to wonder, “What will I find if I walk some more?”

An undistinguished pine tree, holding candles of light, invites her to enter a clearing.  Right in front of her waits an unbelievable scene.

A tiny feed trough filled with hay stands alone.

From the shadow’s fringes come a man, a woman, and a newborn baby.  The woman carefully places the baby in the feedbox, because there is no room for them at the inn. 

Lydia’s pulse quickens as she realizes what is happening.  A “real life” nativity landscape . . . or is it the story predicted through prophecy’s promises?  Her young mind just isn’t sure.

She looks back up into the heavens and fixes her eyes upon the morning’s star.  Suddenly she feels joy surrounding her heart.  Indeed, she believes in the love found in her Savior.

Kneeling in the soft snow, Lydia offers a short prayer:

Sweet Baby Jesus

Your love warms my heart.

Your birth will lead many to worship you.

I will always walk with you.

I love you so much.

Amen.

George Matheson Quote

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I will have reached the point of greatest strength once I have learned to wait for hope.

From Lamentations 3:25-26:  “The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul that seeks him.  It is good that one should wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord.”

George Matheson (1842-1906) was Scottish pastor, Christian author, and hymn writer.  His faith in God matured after becoming blind as a young man.

Abraham Kuyper Quote

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In the total expanse of human life, there is not a single square inch of which the Christ, who alone is sovereign, does not declare, “That is Mine!”

From Romans 8:28:  “We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, who are called according to His purpose.”

Abraham Kuyper (1837-1920) was a Dutch pastor, journalist, statesman, and Christian theologian.  He served as Prime Minister of the Netherlands from 1901-1905.

Brian Keepers Quote

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Resilience is not about achieving big, extraordinary things for God; it’s about living an ordinary life in a beautiful way, loving others as Christ has loved us.

From Ephesians 5:19-21:  “As you sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to one another, singing and making melody to the Lord in your hearts, giving thanks to God the Father at all times and for everything in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, being subject to one another out of reverence for Christ.”

Brian Keepers is an American pastor who has served in the ministry for over 20 years.

D. L. Moody Quote

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A holy life will produce the deepest impression.  Lighthouses blow no horns; they only shine.

From Titus 2:7:  “In all things, offering yourself as a model of good works and in your teaching offering integrity.”

D. L. Moody (1837-1899), also known as Dwight Lyman Moody, was an American evangelist and Christian teacher.  He is frequently credited with inspiring modern mass revivalism.

Advent’s Journey

From Luke 1:46-47:  “And Mary said, ‘My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior.'”

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Advent’s journey

Following Savior’s star

Walking toward Bethlehem

Nurturing hope from afar

 

Advent’s patience

Sowing fresh seeds of hope

Harvesting heavenly peace

Grasping eternity’s rope

 

Advent’s witness

Wrapping faith in God’s Word

Waiting for hope to be born

Seeing prophecy unblurred

 

Advent’s treasures

Rising without fanfare

Revealing Messiah’s hope

Answering every prayer

 

Advent’s cleansing

Leaving darkness for light

Replacing man’s sins with hope

Raising redemption forthright

 

Advent’s glory

Sharing from hope above

Bearing world’s ultimate joy

Believing in Father’s love

 

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From Luke 1:54-55:  [Mary continues speaking] “‘He has come to the aid of His child Israel, in remembrance of His mercy, according to the promise He made to our ancestors, to Abraham and to his descendants forever.'”