It is only because of problems that we grow mentally and spiritually.
From James 1:2-4: “My brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of any kind, consider it nothing but joy, because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance; and let endurance have its full effect, so that you may be mature and complete, lacking in nothing.”
You cannot truly listen to anyone and do anything else at the same time.
From James 1:19: “You must understand this, my beloved: let everyone be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger.”
The great awareness comes slowly, piece by piece. The path of spiritual growth is a path of lifelong learning.
From 1 Peter 2:4-5: “Come to Him, a living stone, though rejected by mortals yet chosen and precious in God’s sight, and like living stones, let yourselves be built into a spiritual house, to be a holy priesthood, to offer spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ.”