The secret of every discord in Christian homes and communities and churches is that we seek our own way and our own glory.

From Romans 12:15-17:  “Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.  Live in harmony with one another; do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly; do not claim to be wiser than you are.  Do not repay anyone evil for evil, but take thought for what is noble in the sight of all.”